Love! A small word, but unique is in itself. The sweetness of sugarcane, the depth of the ocean, the coolness of the moon, the sun's heat, the purity of the sky, the patience of the earth, the river's splendor, as if the words from this little one fell in love. It gives life poetic form, transforms harshness into tenderness. It makes human emotions sublime to inferior.
If we do not look at love from the same point of view, then we get to see many forms of it. The first and amazing love found in 'Childhood'. We get this love from parents only. It is selfless, honest, fair, and innocent love. When the child remains in the womb, he gets the love of the mother first. The mother's fingertips touch her to realize that he is taking the first step in this world, he is frightened, probably weeping but probably because of his mother's body odor when he comes in his mother's lap On recognizing the affection touch of his fingers, he thinks himself safe and sleeps quietly.
At this time neither he wants money or fame, nor any nymph, but only his parents. This love found in childhood supports him till the end. Therefore it is said that children should be given a lot of love in infancy, it gives proper nutrition in the development of their personality. Just as a plant needs a proper environment, manure, water, and light to grow, similarly proper environment, nutritious food along with 'proper' love is also needed for the proper development of children.
Another form of love is 'affection'. The 'affection' that we get from elders, neighbors, and gurus. Affection is the love we get because of our virtues. It is a kind of redemption, ie love received in return. If we respect elders, we will get love from them, if we respect the gurus, then we will also get knowledge with affection. For 'affection' no one can be stubborn, for that one has to carve himself and become worthy.
Another form of love that is strange is like an incomprehensible puzzle. Nobody has understood it till date. It is not known how that brings two strangers very close. It seems as if it comes as destiny and gives poetic light to life. This is the form that produces vibrations of emotion even in a non-obsessed person, making the mind dizzy. Even a hard-hearted person living in ideals does not understand when, why and how love has sprouted on the hard wasteland of his heart. His aspirations, all his lofty ideals remain intact.
The true love wants to embrace his partner's grief and give him happiness. Wants to shade him by becoming an umbrella in hard sunlight. Taking his head off his mistakes saves him from being humiliated. He does not bring it into the conversation among his friends, he hides it in the velvet box of his heart. He maintains the 'dignity' and 'reputation' of his partner. Love is divine, it is never wrong.
Lovers can be wrong. It is up to us at what level we have taken love. If our love is true, then we should not expect that the person in front should be like us. Sometimes love makes us selfish, we become so attached to our partner that we cannot bear anyone to come close to them. We just want him with us all the time.
Make your love like Sanjeevani, which can give new energy to life, breathe life's happiness. Do not let the precious moments of your life be wasted by thinking that the love received is true or false. It may be that your partner's love gesture is 'half full', but you have to generously spill your love into his pot. One day their pot will start spilling and you will get wet with that love juice. To be loved, we have to learn to love. We have to sacrifice our ego and selfishness, only then we will be able to give our love that divine form.
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