It is often believed that the hearts of unsuccessful lovers in puberty are broken and the broken heart is repaired over time. The most profound impact of love failure on one's mindset. Failure cripples this person psychologically. A person unsuccessful in love starts losing himself. He thinks of himself as inferior to others. Recent researches have shown that deep shock, feeling of loneliness and feeling of losing someone have a bad effect on heart health.
Just as a tricolor, overwhelmed by the light of a burning flame of a candle, leaps towards it and burns itself, similarly a person unsuccessful in love is unaware of the adverse effect on the health of the heart. The self-harming mentality is called the 'Lust Trump Braines'.
According to Kuryanski, a faculty at Columbia University Teachers College and author of 'The Complete Idiot's Guide to a Healthy Relationship', the person begins to get signs before he fails in love but he deliberately ignores them. Since he does not fear his loss, he dares to jump into the fire knowing it. The sense of sacrificing oneself hurts the heart.
What to do...
1. There is no mindset like 'Love Shock'. If your partner has made any other friendship except you, then there is no fault in you. There is no such deficiency in you because of which you have been left deliberately. It is the right of another to befriend whom and to break up with whom. You should respect this right of another.
2. Try to identify what you are going to lose - think of immortal love, which is a fantasy. Teen Age Lover comes out of the fantasy world as an adult.
3. Rebuild your personality. Identify and trust your strengths and strengths.
4. Learn to recognize yourself before claiming to understand others because it is only after understanding oneself that the power to recognize others develops.
5. Stop blaming yourself for failing in love because no one can be so beautiful or so smart as to live up to the expectations of others. There is no limit to desires because they have wings of imagination. Your virtues are human and therefore real.
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